February, 2009


22
Feb 09

StoryCorps: Listening is an Act of Love

Where were you at 7:30 am on Thursday, February 19? Or 4:50 pm that same day? I was listening to my StoryCorps interview on KPCC, 89.3.  Yep, my interview.

 

Another huge goal accomplished for 2009! 

 

This one actually exceeded my hopes and intentions—not only did I record an interview with StoryCorps, a short segement of the interview was selected to air on our Los Angeles NPR station!  Talk about the icing on the cake.

 

I’ve been a big fan of StoryCorps for quite a while now.  The Friday morning stories, aired nationally on NPR, are a highlight of my radio-listening week.  They are all beautiful stories and several have even moved me to tears.

 

Not heard of StoryCorps? Here’s their mission, taken from their webpage:  “The mission of StoryCorps is to honor and celebrate one another’s lives through listening. We accomplish this by providing access both to the StoryCorps interview experience and to the content that emerges from these interviews.  StoryCorps reminds us of the importance of listening to and learning from those around us. It celebrates our shared humanity. It tells people that their lives matter and they won’t be forgotten. Through StoryCorps, we hope to create a kinder, more thoughtful and compassionate nation.”

 

Wow.  This is powerful stuff.

 

My friend Laura is a huge fan as well.  So when I learned that a StoryCorps mobile station was coming to east LA, there was no doubt in my mind I’d sign up and would ask Laura to be my partner. Laura agreed to participate immediately and enthusiastically and I made sure I was at my computer at 10 am sharp on the day reservations opened.  The first appointment I wanted was swooped away (they booked super fast) but I got my second choice—Sunday, February 1 at 10: 30 am.

 

On the drive up to LA, Laura and I decided we’d talk about our friendship and that she would interview me.  We borrowed several questions from the list of ideas published on the StoryCorps website and she added several she made up on her own (which remained secret to me until our interview.)  Laura and I have a deep and complex relationship so I had no doubt we’d find plenty to talk about and that it would be real and honest.  

 

 

I’d never been in a recording studio so the experience of recording our interview (40 minutes worth) was new.  I thought for sure the huge microphones in front of us would be a distraction, as well as the girl sitting behind me manning the audio equipment.  Both faded away within minutes and for 40 minutes (or what is just 10 minutes?), it was just me and Laura talking openly and honestly about our friendship. 

 

A few weeks later, when KPCC called to get our permission to air a segment of our conversation, I about fell off my chair.  This couldn’t be true!  It was.  Although it only aired in LA and not nationally, that was more than fine with me.  I really didn’t care who heard it, if anyone. (Three colleagues at work heard it!) What I cared about what that the universe was giving me thumbs up for deciding to participate in a project that had great meaning for me.  Rather than sit on the sidelines and think about what it would be like to participate, I took the initiative and made it happen. And the universe decided to affirm my decision by putting it on the air for anyone who wanted to listen.  How cool is that?

 

If you want to hear or read our two-minute segment, here you go:    http://www.scpr.org/news/stories/2009/02/19/08_storycorps_teer_0219.html.  Oh, yeah, all StoryCorps stories will be permanently archived in the Library of Congress so if this link doesn’t work, you can check it out, all 40 minutes worth, the next time you’re in Washington, D.C.


22
Feb 09

By the Grace of Gracie

Today things started to click.  I was actually able to get Gracie to move where I wanted her to to and to trot when I asked her!  After three horseback riding lessons, I’m excited about my progress—and even more importantly, I really enjoyed my lesson.

Learning to ride a horse is a major goal of mine for 2009.  I found a wonderful instructor, Denise, through Elizabeth, a volunteer and donor I interact a lot with at work.  She and her husband have several horses that are stabled on their property at home.  Elizabeth is a total horse person—she spends summers at her second home in Idaho, with the horses.  I told Elizabeth about my plans to learn to ride and asked if she knew of a good instructor.  She immediately suggested Denise.  (Ask and you shall receive.)  When I contacted Denise and she told me she worked at the “Beverly Hillbilly” stable at Coto de Caza (vs. the much larger Beverly Hills stable), I knew she would be a good match for me.     

Today was lesson number three, my second session with Gracie.  (Last week was Billy Joe Bob on a trail ride.) She is a beautiful quarter horse—chestnut colored with a white stripe down her nose.  She is gentle and sweet and very patient with novices like me.  I felt at ease with Gracie the first time I met her.  Today I groomed her and walked her on her lead into the arena for our lesson then back to her stall at the end of the day.  (Heck, if you were watching, you might have thought I actually knew what I was doing.  The whole idea of “acting as if” can actually work!)   

I love the feeling of competency that’s growing as I spend more time around the horses and learn to ride.  I’m setting my fears aside—fear of the horses, fear of failure, fear of looking like a fool—to be in the moment, feel myself, feel the horse and to just go for it.  I was really surprised today with how well I did riding Gracie around the arena and getting her to go from a walk to a trot and back to a walk again.  We even did figure eights in the arena to test my ability to get her to move where I wanted her to go.  I must say, we did pretty well for a first try. And Denise, my instructor, complimented me on my riding form and acknowledged that I had come a long way since my first lesson. She must know how much I appreciate praise, maybe even more so than Gracie!